I think it doesn’t matter what I believe. Things that cannot be proved are not worth arguing over. No one can win and everyone will lose. I don’t know if there is or isn’t a higher being. But if there is one, I sure hope it doesn’t write our “fate”. I don’t believe in fate. Otherwise, anything bad I do could just be “fate” and a “blessing in disguise”. I could transfer all responsibility for unfavourable outcomes to “fate”. No thanks. I rather own it and call my successes/failures my own. Please don’t tell me things happen for a reason. I tend to stop hanging out with you after that.